I know that for many people here dealing with conflict is probably not an issue, but for me it has always been THE big issue in my life. I have only recently found enough courage to confront my fear instead of running away from conflict. Can you offer me more guidance on this?
Umph! Why MUST you start off with a pathetic, "for many people here dealing with conflict is probably not an issue?" Have you as yet given yourself TRUE credit for the BIG step that you have taken? But knowing you, probably not! It is just too much EFFORT to really break free from your comfort zone! So let us just belittle what you have done before anyone realises your FULL potential, for it would be a disaster if you were called upon to materialise it! Come on, friend, just keep on indulging in your FALSE sense of humility! We all know it only masks your COMPLACENCY, but we will pretend we haven't noticed!