What X. has shared with you is of crucial importance to every one of you.
It is frankly not possible to relate to anyone else unless we can relate to ourselves and hence our own gender. We live in a heterosexual universe, but where humanity is at at this point in time is that heterosexual men either flippantly write each other off, or else become partners in crime. We see this same tendency reflected within the homosexual world. As a result there is very little competing together or love and warmth. Furthermore, unless men do learn what it means to be truly male, mother will strangle the planet, and until you are male, that includes the mother in you.
With warm regards,