Théun, what causes premature ejaculation, and how does one cure it?
There are several reasons for premature ejaculation, but by far the most common cause is FEAR of inadequacy! The way in which this works is that when you become aroused there is already a deep fear in you that you will NOT be ABLE to perform adequately as a male. As a result you SUBCONSCIOUSLY become FIXATED on the GOAL of having to fertilise the female! That FIXATION, which the male subconsciously perceives as being the ultimate TEST of his masculinity, coupled with the FEAR of failure, causes the physical BRAIN to CO-OPERATE in the most help-full or supportive way it knows how, by ENSURING that the physical BODY delivers upon the perceived COMMAND or GOAL which is being held in FOCUS within the mind! The result is premature ejaculation.
Premature ejaculation is automatically cured as you begin to CHANGE your MIND-SET with respect to maleness. In other words, as you LEARN to shift the focus from performing PHYSICALLY to simply GIVING love, warmth, and above all, giving OF YOURSELF as a male, the whole process from beginning to end will normalise, if I may say it in this way.